her fantasies
You’re not the only one with a checklist of fantasies to fulfill -- she has a list of her own too. iVillage.com lets AskMen.com readers in on some of the naughtiest fantasies she’s been aching to try. Pick your favorite from the list, prepare the necessary props and suggest playing
it out tonight.

sexy role play
Sex life feeling a bit stale? Well, there's one sexual organ most people neglect: the brain. It's your passport back to Sexual Nirvana. Literally millions of us secretly use fantasies during masturbation, and some of us use them to achieve orgasm during sex. So why not own up to your favorites and act them out with your partner for what could be the lustiest sex you've had in years? Just follow this step-by-step guide.

fantasy #1
He's a virgin, you're Mrs. Robinson

Why it appeals to you: It's a power game and "forbidden" sex for both parties, which is always
a guaranteed libido-lifter.

What you'll need: A sexy secretary-type outfit works for this one: a long pencil skirt, an unbuttoned shirt to show off a push-up bra, stockings, and high heels.

The action plan: The trick to this one is to move very slowly at first. You're seducing him, and he's struggling -- torn between ripping off your clothes and worrying about the consequences. (What will his mom say if she finds out? Is she really seducing him or is he reading too much into it?) Say you're going to fix a drink for each of you, then lead him into the lounge room with your drinks. He sits on the couch, you sit on a chair opposite, crossing your legs and hiking your skirt high. He's not sure where to look. Make general chit-chat (the sort of stuff you'd ask your son's friend, if you have/had a teenager), then take the conversation to another -- saucier -- level. Tell him you don't think your husband finds you attractive anymore. Ask him, “Do you think I’m attractive?”  Let him squirm with embarrassment as he tries to be diplomatic --  and tries to hide his erection.

At that point you say, “You seem a little uncomfortable,” and move from the chair to sit beside him on the couch. Loosen the first two buttons of his shirt and rub the back of your hand against his exposed chest saying, “Such soft skin. So unlike my husband's.” As he squirms, undo the top few buttons of your shirt, take his hand and place it on your breast. Ask him if he likes that.

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