Is there any truth to the notion that couples with a similar intelligence tend to have longer-lasting relationships? That birds of a feather, flock together? Perhaps. But all that really matters to the Player, regardless of the intelligence of a woman, is how easily he can cultivate chemistry and make a connection that he can use to achieve his goal. Creating this chemistry requires the Player to execute his finely tuned skills of observation to execute an appropriate reaction to her exhibited behavior.

It shouldn’t take long to sketch a rudimentary “intelligence portrait” of your chosen target. Simple chitchat will quickly reveal if she’s unusually bright or irretrievably dense. A difference in intelligence, in either direction, presents an automatic challenge that will require you to take certain steps.

Before we examine the following list of hints and tips regarding intelligent women, bear in mind that none of these are designed for women with a normal IQ. The broads who sit at opposite ends of the spectrum tend to be rare and may demand a new flirting strategy from you. Both these groups of women are very different, and you must work to retain your image and reputation regardless of whether she’s a Harvard-educated lawyer or a dropout who couldn’t manage a GED. It’s your job to build the bridge to a workable connection -- arm yourself accordingly.

Adjusting to smart women
Don’t highlight her intelligence
Much like the stunningly beautiful women who generally experience the same kind of approach from would-be suitors, outrageously intelligent women have had their fair share of predictable encounters. You will fail if you play into that. It took all of 30 seconds for you to understand just how smart this woman is, but you’re not about to launch into the typical male responses. For example, don’t act intimidated and overly humble, and, above all, don’t play the “Aw shucks, I ain’t dat smart” card for the sake of endearment. This intelligent babe has seen that before.

What you need to do is recognize her braininess, and while you’re not dismissing it, you shouldn’t be fixating on it. This is similar to the advice I gave in the "Approaching the 10s" article, in which I warned against focusing on her looks. One of the most common traps of early courtship is to give obsessive attention to her one significant and unique characteristic.

In this case, when you’re dealing with an intelligent woman, you need to treat her with the same respect that you expect for being who you are. You need to display enthusiasm when she talks about her favorite subjects, and you should be appropriately impressed. Don’t forget to show her that you like to have fun, that you value her company, and that you’re passionate about your favorite subjects.   

Let her talk about her expertise
College professors aren’t always good teachers -- they just love to talk about their favorite subject. The highly educated woman is probably an expert in something and likely enjoys talking about it. You don’t care what it is, be it nuts, bugs or whatever, but you’re suddenly fascinated by it. When you show an interest in your target's area of expertise, you are also likely showing an interest in her profession and her livelihood, which will most certainly get her talking. You may also wish to highlight your own lack of knowledge in that area, shaking your head in wonder and fascination at certain factoids that she reveals to you.

Just don’t take your show too far or she’ll start to believe you’re simply patronizing her for the sake of schooling her in your area of expertise, which is no good. She’s no dummy, so if you’re going to play this card, make sure you pay attention and ask this intelligent woman some semi-educated questions.