Play the role of the dour, “I-hate-everything” artist
Let’s say you’re a musician or an aspiring actor. You should take advantage of that chosen profession to toss a little “Colin Farrell” at her. For whatever reason, down throughout history, women have been attracted to the kind of man who rarely smiles, has a chip on his shoulder the size of Montana, and always adopts a bored visage while in public. You’re adopting the “artsy” persona, where you’re critical of just about everything, but aren’t loud or visibly annoyed. The world sucks, and there isn’t anything you can do about it, so why not have a little fun before you die? Just don’t step over the line into a sort of paranoid psychosis, keep this little act reigned in lest you frighten her away. You want her to be intrigued by your withdrawn, frowning demeanor, not freaked out.

For the most part, women view men in an artistic field as sensitive, so regardless of whether or not that’s the case, why stomp all over her assumption? Reinforce that belief, and you’ll reap the rewards of your efforts.

You’re a Player, and she’s going to know it
So you’ve successfully lined up the aircraft for approach, and now you simply have to land it. In order to close the deal, I suggest taking things a step further; this one goes beyond confidence because you’re actually crowing about your recent successes.  Normally, bragging about previous conquests to a potential conquest is a cardinal sin of the pickup specialist, but we’re all about breaking new ground, here. You’ve bagged a lot of women, and you expect her to be appropriately impressed. Think about it: There must be something at least mildly appealing about you if so many women have allowed you into their… good graces. Don’t you think she’d be somewhat curious about your God-given abilities? So don’t hide it, flaunt it!

Now, there is the possibility that this won’t fly at all, so you can test the waters with a more subtle comment, such as, “I’ve had my fair share of women, but none have made me laugh like you.” It’s a compliment, with an added implication, an implication she may immediately address with a shy smile.

Jerk her interest
“Classy jerk” may sound like an oxymoron, but if you’re looking to score, it’s good to switch tactics here and there. Besides, this won’t damage your reputation -- provided you don’t overuse these tips -- and if you’re successful, you’ll know there’s more than one way to skin a cat. It’s all about adding more techniques to your already-expansive arsenal, so don’t discount the effectiveness of the bad boy, the brooding artist or the various “alpha-male” approaches. No, they won’t work on all women, but not all women are the same.

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