Female Ejaculate
I'm really confused about the idea of orgasm and female ejaculation. Does ejaculation always happen with an orgasm? If so, I am very unsure if I have ever had an orgasm. I thought I had, and I thought that I had "cum" before, but it definitely wasn't a liquid or something that actually ran out of me like a male ejaculation. Could it be that I haven't actually had an orgasm or made myself "cum" and I was just getting excited and wet?

There are two very important things that you need to know about the female orgasm. First, not every woman can ejaculate while having an orgasm; in fact, a very tiny minority has this ability. Second, if you’ve had an orgasm before, you would know it. An orgasm is like a big slap in the face, rather than a tiny poke on the arm. You wouldn’t miss having it.

As stimulation and pleasure intensifies for women, they tend to become “wetter” and better lubricated, but ejaculation is not a clear sign of orgasm for a woman. One can certainly exist without the other. Also, getting “wet” can also exist without an orgasm. My guess is that if you actually need to question whether or not you had an orgasm, you probably didn’t. So, your conclusion of the situation might be right. So, don’t stress over not having the porn star-like ability of shooting up a storm; instead, focus on ways to make the orgasms you do experience more pleasurable, memorable experiences.

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