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Loving Lesbians
I was wondering about my friend who is a lesbian. I’m a guy and I’m not gay. My friend claims that she would never turn to men, but we talk about dirty sexual stuff and she does think about guys, which turns me on, but she may not want that for us. She gets a little mad when I ask if there could be more. She is very afraid of going down on a guy and doing the other parts, which I do not care for -- the only thing I want to start out with is making her feel good by going down on her since most women like it the same whether it's a girl or a guy going down on them. I really care for our friendship, but I also want a bit more. I don't know what to do.
You don’t know what to do? It’s quite simple, actually. Your female friend is a lesbian who has actually told you she doesn’t want a relationship with you or any other man. So here’s exactly what you do: Keep fantasizing about her all you want, but drop the idea of ever making it a reality.
Honestly, Pedro, I think you’re more turned on by the fact that she’s a lesbian than you are by her. You said it yourself, you don’t care much for sex with her -- you just want to perform oral sex on her. Now, that’s not grounds for a particularly solid relationship, is it?
Also, you say that she is “very afraid of going down on a guy and doing the other parts,” and quite frankly, I think you are trying to instill some sort of hope into your brain that something might happen between you and this woman by dismissing her lesbianism and calling it “fear.” Listen here, Pedro: She’s not afraid to touch men; she simply doesn’t want to touch men. So unless you book that gender re-assignment surgery and don your mother’s best church dress, you don’t have a snowball’s chance.
Bedroom Workout
It has been a long-occurring thought of mine whether sex could be counted as a legitimate workout. Going at a good speed and switching positions to work different muscles, could sex actually be a workout activity?
While various studies show that calories are burned during sex and you can get a mediocre amount of cardio in there, I wouldn’t rely on frequent sex as your sole method of exercise.
Sure, you work out different muscles during intercourse with all those complicated Kama Sutra moves people are doing nowadays, but to get a legitimate muscle workout you need to do reps and sets on alternating days using your target muscles. Plus, you’ll only be targeting the specific muscles that you use during sex (like your thigh or arm muscles), and neglecting to work out muscles like your calves, abs and pectorals. Another reason why you should find another source to help you get fit is that you’ll need to incorporate some high-intensity cardio in your routine. You’ll need at least 30 minutes of vigorous cardio, three to four times a week, to stay moderately fit.
In other words, think of sex as an enjoyable complement to your basic weekly workout routine.
Backdoor banana
I am not gay! And me and my girlfriend were having sex and she dared me to stick a banana up my butt hole. Is that bad or what? Well now I kind of like it...
First, let me extend a heartfelt thanks to you for clearing up the matter of your sexuality from the outset. Really, we’re glad you felt the need to exclaim that in such a defensive manner.
Now on to your real “problem”: the fact that you like having a banana inserted into your anus. Roger, I’d say other than your extreme bout of homophobia, you don’t have much of a problem at all. It’s normal for a man to find anal stimulation pleasurable, considering all the nerve endings in the area and the fact that your G-spot (the prostate) is hiding way up in there.
I’m not an avid supporter of sticking foreign objects into places they don’t belong, but if you make sure the object (like this banana) is adequately cleaned beforehand and inserted slowly and carefully, it shouldn’t cause problems to the area.
Pre-ejaculate problems
I am 16 years old and my girlfriend and I have very regular sex, and we like to tease, touch and fool around. When I am erect, my penis lets out a clear, sticky liquid. My girlfriend is very conscious and scared about becoming pregnant since we are so young, but in a past relationship I had sex without a condom a couple of times and she did not get pregnant. I'm just wondering if there is any semen in the clear liquid, and any possible chance of her getting pregnant by it?
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